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    February 06

    以德报怨可乎？

         这些日子，常会想起一个曾经以为自己读懂了的故事。
     
         孔子的弟子问孔子：老师，以德报怨可不可以呢？孔子回答：可以啊！可是，你又用什么来回报那些对你有德的人呢？不如用不偏不倚的态度来对待那些对你有“怨”的人的吧！
        
         是啊，当我以善良来对待那些用残忍对待我的人的时候，又用什么来回报那些用善良来对待我的人呢？恐怕是残忍吧！残忍者被美酒相迎，善良者反而得到了猎枪，于是，残忍的越来越多，有勇气坚持善良的却越来越少，善良没错，残忍也没错，错的只有我，做的是我搞反了它们的位置！这几年我一直都在辜负这一些善良对我却不求回报的人，却总以为自己很洒脱，其实，也不过是个以怨报德的人罢了！
         
         工作忙碌之余，常常会走失了自己，有人说我不可靠，是啊，一点都没错，因为我总是很自我，总是自以为是，虽然嘴上说不干涉别人的选择生活，其实却总在霸道的指手画脚！
        
         或许，现在明白这一切并不算太晚吧？至少我可以学着闭紧嘴巴，学着尊重别人的生活方式，学着善待那些善待我的人，学着冷漠那些冷漠的人！
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    子涵 张wrote:
    怎么了？老是无语啊！总是闭着嘴巴，总有一天你又会后悔的！哼哼！
     
    随便来踩踩，希望没踩坏了你的花花草草……
    Mar. 1

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